To live in reality is far better then pretending.....

Let's Assume you are doing it right...

 

I have been observing for last few years it is not normal that behavioral changes are unexpected, It is normal when complaining and gesture of cherish becomes part of normal conversation. Let's assume it is good to act not normal and to behave like what you prefer,
It may look good and presenting oneself as someone else will ultimately loss what you actually are. Apart from loss when you will face the reality it will be difficult to cop with it.
Choices are best friends to have, don't stick to one. ;)